Most everyone is codependent in some way… What is your definition of codependency? I often use a book entitled, Codependent No More, an excellent book that I will quote from now. “A codependent person is one that has allowed another person’s behavior to affect him or her and is obsessed with controlling that person’s behaivor.” Codependency does not have to be tied to drug addiction as many people believe, and again is in all of us. How has codependency affected you? Are you in a codependent relationship now? What does that look like for you?