Have you ever loved someone so much that it hurts?  And, not in a good way, I mean physically hurts? Sometimes, even in our own family-of-origin, we find that no matter what we do, we are not loved by others the way that we love them.  

Well what do you do?

Try loving those people from a distance, creating some space, setting a boundary, even in your own family.  By doing this, you are loving yourself, which is the ultimate self-care!